Soooooo...the EX and I have been separated now for 9 months. I think it's ok for me to discuss my dating life since he had girlfriends all through our marriage. Oh, and he's currently living with one of them, so yeah..I think I'm good!
COUGAR: a middle-aged woman who seeks out much younger men for romance or physical intimacy. A 35+ year old female who is on the "hunt" for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male.
Here's my dilemma: In the past few months only younger guys have asked me out. The oldest guy I've gone out with was 30. Don't get me wrong........I totally dig it!! I'm psyched that guys think I'm younger. I don't think I look 39 and I KNOW I don't act it! I can admit that I'm a bit immature for my age, I don't have kids, I have tattoos, I work in radio and like loud rock. I can see how a guy would think I'm younger. But am I a COUGAR??
When I'm out, which isn't that often, I don't "chase" or go after younger guys. That being said, I am attracted to younger guys. I like to have fun and I have NO desire to settle down or get married again. This makes guys in their 20's and early 30's appealing to me. We usually enjoy the same music, movies, etc. Long term relationships are NOT what younger guys are thinking about. Perfect for me! But again, am I considered a COUGAR??
I would not rule out dating a guy my age or older. Usually these guys are more stable, financially secure, and reliable. I don't really have a "type" physically. I'm attracted to guys that are confident and outgoing. But many times older guys or guys in their late 30's have baggage. Baggage means drama and I am so not with drama. Had that.......and LOTS of it! We all have some type of baggage, I realize that but I'm still trying to drop off some serious "baggage" at the nearest divorce airport and really can't deal with anyone else's "issues" at the moment.
So, am I a COUGAR?? I don't think I am. I don't purposely go after guys that are younger. Younger guys just seem to be into me at the moment. Do I enjoy it? Hell yes!!! I'm not complaining! Besides, age is just a number. If you are attracted to somone and have fun with them then I say go for it. If society has to put a label on it, then I guess I'm all about a big 'ole GRRRRROWL!!!!!!! Giddy-up!
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Hey Mel!
ReplyDeleteI'm recently divorced, too. And, I was approached by a man 5 years younger than I am. I am flattered he showed interest and doesn't care I'm older than he is. We've gone out and talked on the phone, and I enjoy his company. I didn't set out looking for a man at all...so, I really don't mind if people think I'm a cougar!
I love cougar's..........Wouldn't have it any other way..........Go Mel!!!!!!
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